Technique to handle heart and pain

Little girl was looking so much depressed and dishearten by her face expressions and walking with his friend named hamid. Hamid notice it and try to know the reasons of her worried situation, he wants to keep her fresh but the little girl wasn’t showing any interest in hamid and still thinking about pain in her heart due to her insult in class group. She was so much depressed that why they insult her so much, her heart was broken and she feels a lot of pain as her emotions hitting her continuously. She thinks its hits her self-respect.

On other side hamid start trying to adopt the ways to make his friend happy, he tries to make her mode by jokes then tried to make her happy by his acts but nothing works then he bite on her arm and ran away, at some distance he turns to his friend who was running after him to catch him and give him a lesson what he had done and forgot her insult because of which she was so much depressed, hamid run and laugh as his technique worked effectively.

How To Mange Your Speaking Speed

             Are you a fast speakers? People can't understand often, what are you saying? Friend make your fun on your speaking style? Are you losing confidence due to all of these happening?

            Here are some suggestion for you If you are trouble like this.

     ** Be clam, unworried, gave your lips a nice smile, stand, firmly or sit comfortably, give your body parts a slow motion. Don't let any part to vibrate and move to and fro.

     ** Use comfortable dresses, try to get rid of so many ideas and thinking in your mind. Don't mind on what ever is going around, Don't be so sensitive.

            These things as thinking normal are ineffective to speed of speaking of a person but research and surveys fells us have great results of speech of a person, style of feeling, asking, question and exclaiming by a person.

               Just  practice these habits three or four days and lead it to one week, you will greatly found it use full for manging your speed of speaking, peace of mind, feelings of satisfaction, calmness of heart.

               Getting these points in your mind:-

           => Be comfortable ( sit or stand )

           => As you feel well and easy.

           => give your self a smile.

           => Lightly try to control your ideas and thinking.

           => strongly try to manage your emotions, feelings, confidence, happiness, and others features those dis            heart you.

            => get control over motions style of motions of your body part.

           => Be confident, charming, cool and forceful.

              After practicing all this you get a great effect of these on your style of speech and speed of speaking.

              Now come to original matter and focus on your speech get notice of your tongue what others understand from you. Now give attention of your speech, your style of speech, your speed of speech, your way of talking.

            I'm asking some points to the way of talk.

           => Be polite in talking.

           => give sweet smile and pause in speaking.

           => Don`t let your voice volume too loud or too low just let it according to the requirement of the solution.

           =>Have confidence and calmness in your voice.

How to Improve Your Walking Style

        A way of attraction walking style whether you are a male or female walking style matters to your attraction. Models and actors practice theirs walking styles according to their needs.

       A common human looks good to walk in a certain passion. Those who have attractive decent and appreciative walking style are ideal for those who wanna copy them and to walk like them.

       Some general suggestions to improve your walking styles are :

   1 : First get control on your walking speed neither too fast nor too slow, but walk in a standard manner. Walking style greatly depend upon the speed to walk.

       A good standard in speed can be maintain by the practice of three to four days.

   2 : posture while walking is in an effective manner commonly a calm, peaceful, satisfied posture is good looking.

  3 : walking style does not just depends upon the movement of legs,hand also matter. The movement of hand should not be so fast or slow in too or fro manner but in an equilibrium style.

       Many looks good to walk just due to their movement of hands.

  4 : Movement of other body parts like head also matters, good walking style needs very slow movement of head.

First Impression

          Research reports falls us that people largely made up their ming about a person with in the first five minutes of meeting him or her.

          How can I define first impression? A firm hand shake, sustained eye contact, a warm smile, good posture and inferencing yourself in a relaxed and confident manner.

          To learn about a five impression, you should observe other roll models around you, about them you can say that they are ideal to me for this.

          First impression not only depends upon what you had wear? Whats your hairstyle? How types of shoes, sandals you have? All these things matters a lot, you have to take great care of it, but along with this you must have :

  1 : peace in  your mind,

  2 : fresh mode,

  3 : a charming expression,

  4 : calmness in your body (stability of your hands, legs, etc),

  5 : your eye contact,

  6 : straight head position,

  7 : your style to sit and stand.....

        Beside all these your style of dressing, hairs and some other things like bands, watch, ribbons etc, effect due to your current, if you are in an office all this goes to fine, conservative, decent, simple and if you are in a get together or park your first impression goes more satisfied in a cool, smart and easy passion.

        First impression greatly depends upon your age,its phase in different ages are different. first impression look and its needs changes from a kid to a teenager, from teenager to a young, from young to a mature and to old.

      So keeps these generals things in your mind and search and observe the things thats suits you, your sex, environment, your age and other things that you can recognize to improve your impression especially first impression.

Seven Ways to Get Respect

                   Respect is a desire, a need, a matter for which a man can do what ever he earn. Many times the hunger of richness is to get respect.

Q : How can we get respect?

 Q :How can desire me?

 Q :How can my personality become respectable?

As for as i'm concern i observe this matter as following:

1 : "Give Respect and Love Respect"

                  Respect others, respect your company, respect your relation, respect your colleagues, companions, relatives, beloved ones and close ones.

2 : "Respect Due to Attitude"

                 Try to make your attitude operative, social. Be calm at harsh movements, try to control your anger as much as you can. Resolve the problem and patience. Face the difficulties and openness always scan your attitude just like one mirror in yourself.

3 : "Respect Due to Personality"

                Give your personality a good look. Elaborate finely your dressing, makeup, hairstyles. Give leadership shape to your style to standing, walking and sitting.

* Think about your perfection from every angle of your personality.

* Make yourself attractive as much as you can and remember "simplicity is maturity".

* Decent in your style make your look a respectable.

4 : "Respect Due to language"

            Tongue is the device which shape your personality in others mind. Talking, conversation and speech of a person show '90%' of what he is, language style represent you more then anything in you.

* So be polite, be patient, be bold, have courage, have dignity, have confidence in your voice, your speech, your conversation, your meetings .

* Give your voice a power that others respect you, accept your ideas, your feelings, your thinking.

* If u want to make you a successful man than first of all you improve your tongue  power. The tongue power is a GOD gifted thing but if you have tongue power then you have world in your hand.

* Learn the voice at successful persons around you, observe their style of speech, style to talk etc.

5 : " Get Respect With Love"


              When I talk about the love, I talk about the most powerful force.If you have love for everything, every person ultimately you got attraction to then and similarly they to you.

6 : "laugh and smile"


             There is no doubt that laughing is like gold for life but smile has many more advantages then a laugh.


* You had observe the great, ideal, respectable persons that smile often but laugh rare. why do they do this?
  copy them you observe changes in few days.

7 : "use you mind"


* Also observe other ways that you think necessary for getting respect according to your culture, society, economics and other situations.

* By this you will final '60%' of useful points that leads you t a respectable person.

Make Things Easy

            Everyone wants easiness in life, why?
Is this human nature to make matters, targets, goals at their foot, why do we want everything readily done ?
Why do we hate problems, difficulties in our programs of life?

         I think to get easiness is the only thing that leads human being from the world of stones to the modern age. Its a human need, we want relaxations, discounts, freeness in every street of life.

         Now , 21st century, according to me the age of business of making peoples life easier and easier and obviously these businesses are growing day by day because of lot of profit in that field. One is going to paid a heavy amount of his income by using the services which make his life more comfortable, more luxurious .

        But i am not here to discuss a business with you. I am thinking now a days that what about those who provide easiness to human without any cost. Natural gifts of God are also included but when i turned to a man who is providing his services of giving you comforts without any cost. My eyes just respect them, my tongue wanna to thanks them if i face one of them  and now i think my pen give a little tribute to them who are working day and night free of cost.
       Their services, jobs are different but souls are same. You may also seen in your life those who don't show off what they are doing but they do quietly in all the field and aspects of life in all the forms of a human being.
        But the matter with me is that what they want ? why do they do this ? what is the force that mold them to do such jobs ?
    

love ( wasif ali wasif )

* Love can not be gained by effort or struggle, its a blessing , its a luck , instead its a good luck.

* The only thing from heaven on earth is love.

* One who introduced to love start seeing and feeling beauty and beauty around him.

* Love is a journey from a lot of to oneness and oneness to a lot of.

* Love introduce a drop to an ocean.

* Actually love is an amazing explanation of life and universe.

Wasif ali wasif ( dil darya samndar )

* The power of storms can not destroy all the boats.

* Silent face, speaks in front of wise, just like silent words.

* Silence its self is a speech.

* Distance becomes nothing before a wise.

* Wise can see future and the past ..... in the present stage, ideas and happenings.

* genius see this universe like book.

* The CREATOR is much hidden that every presentation is its own and the CREATOR is so much
significant that every hidden is its own.

* For intelligent eye , this universe is mirror of beauty.

* The person who know, knows that the game and the gamer is one.

love's true value

 * The world will often discourage you from giving love. Give love anyway.

 * Many times, despite your best efforts, you will not be understood. Keep giving it your best anyway.

 * The treasures in life are not what you get back. Those things are only shadows of life's true value. 

 * The real treasures are what you're able to give of yourself. And as long as you give authentically, from the heart, with the best you have, it doesn't really matter what comes of it.

 * It's nice to be acknowledged and respected and understood. Yet even when you're not acknowledged or understood, there is still great value in doing what you know is right, what you know is best.

 * Smile a peaceful smile to the depth of your being. Be real, and know that all is well.