Showing posts with label Loneliness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Loneliness. Show all posts

Thursday, May 20, 2010

Feelings Of Loneliness

            Feelings of loneliness are sometime very painful and harsh, In loneliness one feel to be helpless, alone, he thinks that its the ending ending of  everything his life, love, soul, and heart.

           Loneliness feels different to different persons and different to one person at different times, Feelings of loneliness, their effects and results depend upon the factor mentioned above.

           By thinking of loneliness negative effects are more significant that its cause dis hearting, depression, tension   and unhappiness. These are due to that the person wants to be social and like gathering, so that in absence of his beloved ones and  friends he fell in the fear of loneliness.

          And if we focus to the advantages and benefits of feelings of loneliness. If  happens when we are alone with us mentally, hearting, we enjoy our soul, ideology, concepts of  life. In this type of loneliness we are able to know about us.

         In my view many of great mind given to this world is by this type of feelings of loneliness. This situation give wisdom of heart openness of mind, brighting of souls.

         So loneliness, if manage properly, gives a delightful feelings.


Value of Loneliness



      
     To be alone satisfied with loneliness, determines us value of loneliness. loneliness is much valuable when its grow in suitable conditions and environment, it gives human those powers and abilities which makes one a human in real sense.

       The great minds know the value of loneliness because wisdom, piousness wiseness, leadership, qualities, decision making, solution of depression, overconfidence and many more comes from the results and effects of loneliness.

     Many of the average minds in this world thinkings the these no value of loneliness but that loneliness beside gathering and society gives many positive result.

Wednesday, May 19, 2010

Fear of Loneliness

 Why people afraid to be alone ?

Why loneliness is hasted by some people ?

Why do people have fear of loneliness ?

             When we think about all these questions we are thinking to save us but in my point of view loneliness is beautiful thing, It has many advantages, many beautiful effects, many precious results.

          I want to ask those who personally afraid from loneliness, that if you have it your are lucky but its just a loneliness of mind, of soul, of thinks, the loneliness from relations, beloved once is so harsh and fearful.

         To be alone is the great factor of life because many the people are in search of loneliness when they become scared from their busy social life.

         So don't afraid to be alone, to give some fine, to just your self.


Loneliness and depression



 Yes you find me correct, that i am talking about depression due to loneliness. How does loneliness results a situation of depression ?

          If you have question you must have to search for the answer. These are many views and ideas about this but I think matter is just one that.

          " Loneliness cause depression when depression cause loneliness "

         I think you got the answer, its just a difference in behavior, thinking and attitude, but solution is that you should not afraid from depression when you are alone stand and try to feel happy in loneliness then you will get rid of this problem just don't take if as a problem it doesn't becomes a problem for you.

        Don't be so afraid and sensitive, be  simple get advantages of every thing weather its gathering or loneliness, depression or fear. You will get all.

Monday, May 17, 2010

What is Loneliness ?

             Loneliness a fear for every sensitive person, why people are afraid from loneliness? what is loneliness ? Why some like to be alone ? What the hell is to be alone ? And many more questions but everyone cannot be assure by this.

          Loneliness is of many types :

   1 : Physical loneliness:


             Physical loneliness is common, every can see, understand that one is alone at this time, no one is near him, no one close to him, to him to talk, enjoy or share.

   2 : Mental loneliness:


             Mental loneliness is fearful that one cannot share his feeling, emotions nothing around him to enjoy play laugh and hug.


             In this type of loneliness one may have gathering in loneliness.
             Its very complex to understand it, its effects, and results.



Benefits Of Loneliness

        A general concept about loneliness is that its hunt, its painful, when I was a child I heard that "Everything in this world has advantages and disadvantages".

       If I think normally loneliness has its disadvantages more and may be one or two beneficial thing it. I have also heard a quote "loneliness is the the place where great minds grow up". In case to be to be alone is the great factor for make up of mind, idea, concepts, emotions, answers.

      You had seen in your life many people who like to spend their spare time alone. Many of them like nature, beauty, poetry, fiction etc.I can say that loneliness give you time to get close your interests. If you have artistic or spiritual nature, there is a great chance that you like to be alone.

      Actually loneliness gives you to you, u can give time to yourself, your ideas, thinkings, some your problems, plan about your future. When your alone tried from your normal, crowded life you come close to yourself and start thinking about you, the most complex machine in the universe.

      If you have read about many great names in the history, that they are alone maximum time, they wanna loneliness to fulfill their soul and mind to get peace and wisdom.

      Survey reports tells that loneliness is a way to get rid of most tensions because we think deeply and whole heartedly in the matter which we are facing . To be alone for sometime regularly, daily or weekly, and giving yourself a few minutes greatly reduced depression.

      So in my suggestion give yourself time along with your works, activities, games, hanging out, and what ever u like  to do in your loneliness spare time just try you will really get that what your searching for..........