Education and qualification

Abid is a gentle person, have nice nature, he works in private organization and work hard to fulfill his family needs. His qualification is of just 12 years, but as to say he is an educative personality.

Tanveer is an officer of abid and completed 16 yrs of education. He is very clever and knows how to maintain his level of priority and how to control staff under him. Tanveer believe in separation of spirituality or ethics and job, takes everything professionally, He use others for his work and successful in all his beliefs, by his own eye.

When I read about these two persons, I got questions, what is education? What is qualification? Many of the dictionaries in world define these two words and many of languages in the world have specific names for “education and qualification”.

There is a question for me that who’s an educative person? One who has many degrees and certificates of different institution and universities, successful in his professional life but fails to b a human due to his greediness and unbearable nature, tries to hurt others, be selfish and clever for his on purposes OR one who has no or less years in education institutions and universities but he is calm and pious, nice hearted and well mannered, deals effectively and do positively, take care of others feelings and having a devoting nature.

I know everyone is different from others and no one is perfect but difference between good and bad, educative and illiterate, pious and devil is always the concept since human life start on this planet. You also see the difference between personalities and observe then can anyone differentiate between education and qualification?

Lesson by hazrat Mohammad Bin Khalid Al-Aajri (blessings upon him)

Mohammad bin Khalid was a pious man; he had a business of brick manufacturing. One day he was surveying the dried bricks and read to send to furnace for baking.

He heard a voice of a brick saying other, “bye dear, May I shall burnt this night.”

Hazrat bin khalid heard and inspired cause of his nice heart. He ordered to his servant don’t burn these bricks and leave them. After this, he leave this business of burning cause of his kind and pious nature.

Lesson by Abu bin ad ham

A man asked Abu bin Ad ham, “sir! Give me a lesson?"

Abu bin ad ham said “open the close one and close the open one”

Questioner requested “I can't understand, explain please?”

Ad ham (blessings upon him) replied, “open your grip and close your tongue"

How others listen quietly to you? Or how you can get concentration of others?

It is natural that we want to share our mind with others. God gives us many parts of body to pass our message to others. Most useful of them is your tongue. If you have something to say to your friends and other and you don’t succeed in getting attention of listeners or receivers then you become hopeless and feel unconfident and egoistic that why these people are not concentrating on me and why they don’t want to listen what I have.

I have some techniques for you if have problem of getting concentration by others,

• First check your look and ask yourself that can you get concentration by others, in this dressing and style, or not, you can use mirror for this purpose.

• Secondly combine all of your confidence and maturity expressions you most need.

• Now check your time to tell and give message, whether it is funny or purposeful message but speak when others want to listen to you and they are silent for this.

• Give your speech, joke, comment a polish look by your expressions required then……

Watch the magic

Remember, if it doest works initially don’t lose your heart try it 4 to 5 times.

How hair styles suites you?

Many hair styles are introduced in our world of today and hair are such customizable that hair stylings become a vast field. We chose our hair styles according to our environment, interest, body look, culture and age.

Youth get hundreds of hairstyles to give them a cute, naughty or younger look. Mature prefer simple and smart looking hairstyles to give an official and gentle expression. Kids have the most vast and cute collection of hairstyles to look nice. Senior citizens have simple, regular and similar type of looks of hairs.

Remember, hair are the parts of your personality and look, they are greatly matters in imposing your expressions, feelings and thinking. So be careful to choose your hairstyle. Don’t choose them according to you, chose hairstyles according to your gathering.

Effects of handshaking

Why would we shake hand automatically when we meet with each other? Who invent this way of meeting? Why does it is the most common habit of human?

I think handshake is a mystery that when I met a person and shake hand with him, I feel that he really met me, without this, I wont feel satisfaction or it comes to my mind that some thing is missing. Many of times I think that I am addicted of this handshaking.

When we shake hand with someone we try to give an expression of love, friendship or any type of relation between two humans, handshaking can say a thousand words more then a speech or words.

I discuss it by religion Islam, handshaking is given an importance by Islam and Allah tell us a way to be peaceful.

Do you feel yourself in spotlight in your dreams and plans?

Are you a dreamer? Have you any aims and you are trying to complete them by full craze? Do you want to be famous? Do you have the craze to become a leader or a star? Are you really different from others? If you match one of these questions then you mostly match me.

When I was of 12, I dream to fly as a fighter pilot in air force, I liked planes. When I was 15 I became crazy to drive the fastest cars, my dreams goes on evaluating and when I was 18 then I want to be a dancer and I dream and practice to dance in the spotlight, with hundreds of viewers watching me. Now I am 20 and I get rid of these and now I want to b under spot light as rich, successful and ideal person.

May I am so different from other guys but may I matches a little to some others but I think craze differ but its true that many of us want that spotlight for one time in our life. Either we want to be a scientist, businessman, engineer, tourist, journalist and artist or whether we want to be a doctor, a politician, a soldier or fighter etc but craze and wish to be under spotlight is similar.

Some says that this craze is not good for us it’s the habit of failures and then I ask them what the definition of successor is? I think craze or wish is not such bad as we think usually.

 There is a trick to get what you want that keep growing your craze, grow it so much that it occupies your soul, your mind your heart and your movements then watch the magic of this craze.

Keep in mind “ 

Degrading others is a talent or terror

Do you ever see some people have habit to degrade others? Why one want to degrade others? Many of the mysterious cases you can see that in which one degrade other in such a manner and with such a technique that you cant even imagine that.

There are many ways by which others want to degrade the simple, less powerful and innocent ones

Many of our friends which are not actually our friends often in the company and gathering make fool of their friends and they thinks its freeness and friendship, some thinks this is actually enjoyment of the company.

If you ever an experience of job you may see that officers often wants to degrade workers so that they can show what they are.

 Some worst characters degrade others because they think it up grade them.

I think its our social problem and it should be fix by us, there must be some solution of this, don’t make it a terror please deal it gently.

Concept of fresh (Analyzing present, past and future)

A boy was passing through dark the street. Suddenly he listen a strange voice and saw a splashing light coming from the window of a house at right side to him. He decides to solve this suspense and stay beside the window to see the inner view, he saw an old man with oval big glasses working on a big machine having very complex mechanism and splash light coming from the machine.

He knocked at he door old man came out, boy ask about the machine that he wants to see it. Scientist wasn’t agree but on the please of boy scientist let him in, boy observe that scientific device.

Boy: sir! What is this?
Scientist: Its time machine
Boy: Can we go to our past and visit our future by it.
Scientist: (smiles) yes we can
Boy: How you made it? How this idea came to your mind?

Scientist takes the boy near a mirror and asked the boy to stand in front of it.

Scientist: do you know your image in the mirror is ….. Nanosecond old.

Boy amazed then said: It means we are never living in the present, we live in our past and what we do is future?
Or there is no presence of present just past and future concern?
Or may be present is everything, nothing is past and future?

Blue

Analyzing blue color open many doors of wisdom, psychology, art and science on me. I have seen that many offices and work places are dominated by blue color, because blue is a refreshing color and looks cool. Light blue is comfort look and automatically positive for emotions and comfort ability. Dresses in light blue looks less attractive to youth but some time its combination with other dress looks better. Old ones like light blue in their dresses and environment. I believe that light blue belongs to peace colors.

If now I discuss about dark blue then it has a vast approach in daily life in kitchen, in bath in lounge or in drawing room. Apart from this most of industrial instruments along with white, painted with dark blue that is why it can be named as standard color.  In industry dark blue color is mostly used to keep the workers fresh and give them a satisfaction of comfort and better working environment. Mostly in hotels, restaurants combination of light and dark blue are made with many gorgeous styles by designers. In offices you have seen that combination of light and dark blue is mostly chosen by interior designers. Large buildings cinemas, public places are dominated by the light blue dark blue and other blue combinations.

Allah the creator of universe also gives the life on earth; a vast collection of scenes of blue as our oceans are of blue or you can say sea blue color. Sea blue color is such an amazing color that people travel for months in ships in the concentration of this color but nature of human doesn’t bored by sea blue color.

In day time we sea our sky in sky blue color and doesn’t bored or unhappy by same color of sky daily. For all these reasons I believe that Allah, the creator, made our psyche that sky blue or sea blue color looks attractive to us.

The word decent is also associated with blue color and most decent looks dominate the dark blue color. Artist like painters love this color because dark blue and light blue color express much of feelings, emotions and ones ideas and concepts. Youth dressing contains 60% of blue colors some have sea blue or some have dark blue.

In markets and shopping malls, mostly banners and pamphlets of blue color are used for advertising purpose. Mirrors of blue colors give a stylish and modern look and a sign of low temperature. If we observe roads and streets signboards we mostly get them in blue and green colors because its easy to read white or black on blue, mostly dark blue is used for this purpose.

Observing more the dark blue and light blue if we go to Microsoft windows xp, Google chrome, Microsoft software and many other are also made in blue color and millions of people use these software but still not bored or tired up of blue color. Now most websites are in blue color to provide a professional, easy and satisfactory look for visitors.