What is the definition of successor?

If you are taking about the successful person you haven’t met then you must need a strong grip or a job.

Many of elders tell me stories throughout my life like, “that person becomes rich by doing …...”, “that old man becomes famous by doing such such work …”.

I was totally fed up of those stories of successful and failure personalities told by experienced and non experienced ones. More of this, when I filled of listening stories of the personalities who succeed or failed due to luck., I fed up of the unacceptable.

My readers may also have experience of such things. Every one of us thinks about him that he knows the secret of success but no one can define what is success? do we have scales to measure the success? Does success matters in parts of life or at the end of life? Why do we think success is to get money, to get power, to be famous, to be honorable, to be impossible etc?

Think yourself, May you find definition of success but keep in mind you are going to define that war in which almost everyone on this planet is a soldier.

Non believer

What id you think about a non believer who is non believer???

A man who searches for proves to believe?

A person having new ideas, vision, way of life?

A scientist testing his inventions?

A philosopher magnifying his vision?

Or a simple non believer with its wisdom and questions about way of life??

About believing in those what you believe?

Or a non believer is who doesn’t obey aspects that society imparts on him??

As simply I can say a non believer is one who doesn’t believe in what we believe??

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Variation is the best creation of God

Since the day I open my eyes in the world, I have seen everything changed and still changing continuously. As if I observe my life history I came to know that every scene I watched with my eye was different, every sound I heard was different, every step I took was different. When I observed this around me I was so amazed that how God has created the variation in His creations and in everything in this universe. Cause of this I call Him Almighty, who has created everything so complex that I can’t even recognize and from the other point of view His creations are so simple that we can study them easily.

I have seen variation in the creation of the oceans, rivers, lakes, observe His variety in mountains, stones, ores analyze his productivity in animals, birds, and even humans, He has created plains and lands differently as I was wonder to know that the atom which I can’t see is of unlimited variety. I think God has infinity in creations and then in their variation.

One day I was sitting with my friends and I saw that no one of us matches with other, neither physically nor psychologically. It came to my mind that like physical change and variation in our personality there is also variety in approach of our mind. The creator has created us in such a way that everyone can say that, “no one likes me comes to this world” and its can be proven logically that God has so much variation in his creations that I can proudly say that, “I am the only one like me.” 

Satisfaction

ð  Satisfaction is always satisfied

 ð  If you want to be satisfied, become simple to be complex, become complex to be simple.

Questions are the cause of distortions in satisfaction instead answers are to satisfy.

 ð  Human satisfaction is only time being after a success, gain or achievement then human nature goes unsatisfied for other.

ð  Searching for satisfaction is the struggle to be unsatisfied.

ð  If you want satisfaction it assures you know you are unsatisfied.

ð  Satisfaction and absence of satisfaction are the two parts of nature.

ð  Wish to be satisfied may turns into the wish to know the One who know how to satisfy.

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 ð  If you want others get satisfied from you then be satisfied from others.

 ð  Want to  be satisfied, be  satisfied with yourself.

ð  No one goes satisfied from this world, but those who make justice in their life.

Turtle and psychology

Two little boys were playing near the lake. Beside the lake there was a palace of a king, boys are so cute and wearing precious clothes, by look we might say that they might be princes of king.

Suddenly adham , the younger one , jammed once and start looking at one side with fearful eyes and tell the other boy about the strange thing he saw there. Both boys start crying loudly to see that creature and workers and servants of palace run to help them. Ali baba the senior servant ask noyyan, “what happened?” noyyan point at the creature and start crying loudly with fear. Ali baba ask servants to catch that creature. They got it, it was a turtle and little cute boys have never seen the turtle before.

The case goes to the king and king decided to punish the turtle for teasing the princes. He announce to his ministers to advise the punishment. One said, “Kill him by sword” other say, “no he has the shield.” One of them advised to burn the turtle and other to boil him in water. One foolish said, “Throw him into to lake.”

Turtle start crying before king that don’t throw me in lake, please give me another punishment. The king think turtle is more afraid of lake then anything else, that where he should be thrown.

And the clever and psychiatrist turtle laughed as he swam down the river to his home in sea.

Human eye, Spiritual eye

Human eye can see farthest then the most advanced telescope, human eye can observe much more then the most advance electron microscope, but first it must have to see, observe and judge human.

 Spiritual eye can see only spirits, neither human body nor human.

 Perception of scene or image to every human eyes are different, because their third eye effect the ability to precept.

 

Everyone wants to see scene of his/her choice but unfortunately the choice of Creator and Creation often differ.

 Losing eye sight is not the greatest loss, instead losing vision.

 If your eye sight resembles with others it doesn’t mean your vision is similar to others

 If eyes of educative and non-educative persons see the same thing, watch the same action or observe the same happening, it doesn't means their perception is same.

 There is no eye of heart instead heart becomes eye and that’s called blessed.

 Eye is a part of human body, spiritual age is a part of human spirit body but human eye combines them.

 Spiritual eye can see only spirits, neither human body nor human.

 All of them are precept the object differently due to difference in their view, isn't it?

Why do I can’t write?

Studying in O level, having an innocent mind, want to win the world, want to make everyone happy, little desires super human dreams, focusing on studies and hobbies, thinking always about what to play, main assignment and ambition in mind that if I got good grade I shall be successful and greatest, crushed in books day and night, thinks teachers are fool, friends are just life, just life, wish to visit the most amazing parts of planet when I shall become independent, remembering all, I want to discuss that at that stage of life I don’t know that how much can I write, I think I cant write, I want to copy chapters of books and topics of notes on the examination answer sheet, but never think so much about that why I cant write by myself, why I am so nil in creative writing? I don’t think about this question usually.

But at A level, amazingly I got so much in me  that I am forced by the words inside me to put them on the page or blog, how can I write? I got answer for this question, how I think you have the question that how become a writer, I gonna tell you the story of this advancement in me.

First I search for months that on what subject I am able to write? What can I write? After journeys of mind I got that I can write on me, I am addicted to think and search about human, I want to explore this body made by the Creator.

Secondly I know start reading blogs of my interest, articles in newspaper of my usage, studying novels and books I like, you can say that I want to learn to write, enhancing my vocabulary, exploring how much and in which style I could write.

Third era of effort was to get topics and write, in start I was confused what to write and how to complete it, slowly and effortlessly I became able to write article of few lines but in two weeks my pen got so much words to write that I was unable to handle them in my mind and convert this low on page.

 Remember there is no shortcut to write, it needs effort and struggle there is no way, magic or machine which can create ideas in you, it our your mind that can create, God has given so much power to your mind that non of other creation meets it. Creativity is just like a lead pencil, you have to just sharp it and keep it sharp as much as you can so it can write (create) with the quality you want, if you are lazy or thinks there is no need to make effort for this, my advise for you is “ don’t think about writing, save your time.”

True friendship

A young boy was sitting on the bench of a public park and watching three guys standing at some steps to him. Big laughs, giving fives to each other and talking freely show that they were true friends.

One of them started to tease other one and third one started laughing, first one got appreciation from the third one and start degrading, insulting and making joke of the poor second one, who because of friendship just smiling and listening with his eyes looking down.

The little boy thinks, if this is a friendship then I think I would have to prefer to b alone cause I cant bear this type of insult, I think true friend is one who upgrade me, support me, appreciate me, boost up my confidence and create problems for me.

Boys stood up and walk away…..

The noble sacrifice of the dreams

“Dear dad, do exactly as you have been directed by God. You will find me patient and obedient.” Little noble son said to his father.

Father find his little son surrendering so willingly to Gods will, father was looking in the sky with wet eyes and thanking the Almighty for his pious and obedient son.

Father repeated, “Son! Are you sure, are you agree with God’s will?”

Little boy looking down in the floor replied, “Yes father I love Him more then my life and know you too.”

Old man was now observing his little son and thanking God by his heart for giving him such a wise, pious and noble boy.

The little boy was Hazrat Ismail (PBUH) and the father was Hazrat Ibrahim (PBUH) and discussing about the dream of Hazrat Ibrahim (PBUH), which he had since last three nights.

Almighty has given the order to sacrifice his son and now the are on the way to the far place and Hazrat Ibrahim (PBUH) when tries to cut Hazrat Ismail’s (PBUH) throat, Allah the most merciful order the knife not to cut and Hazrat Ibrahim (PBUH) heard a heavenly voice, “Allah had intended to put your test. You have come up to the standard. Now you need not to sacrifice your son. Here is a lamb; this may be sacrifice in Allah’s name.

Lesson by Hazrat Abu Shoaib (blessing upon him)

Real name of Hazrat Abu Shoib was Saleh (cast) and belong to Egypt. He was a very pious and holy man, perform seventy pilgrims by walking, using no animal or transport.

In performing his last pilgrim, he was traveling through a jungle and saw a dog, which was so much thirsty that his tongue loses out; Abu Shoib can’t bear this situation of dog. He shouted loudly, “Anyone here who wants to buy reward of seventy pilgrims at a price of a bowl of water. A man came and give water to him, he took the bowl to dog and said, “this is more important as for as I am concern then seventy pilgrims.”

Technique to handle heart and pain

Little girl was looking so much depressed and dishearten by her face expressions and walking with his friend named hamid. Hamid notice it and try to know the reasons of her worried situation, he wants to keep her fresh but the little girl wasn’t showing any interest in hamid and still thinking about pain in her heart due to her insult in class group. She was so much depressed that why they insult her so much, her heart was broken and she feels a lot of pain as her emotions hitting her continuously. She thinks its hits her self-respect.

On other side hamid start trying to adopt the ways to make his friend happy, he tries to make her mode by jokes then tried to make her happy by his acts but nothing works then he bite on her arm and ran away, at some distance he turns to his friend who was running after him to catch him and give him a lesson what he had done and forgot her insult because of which she was so much depressed, hamid run and laugh as his technique worked effectively.

No end in sight

“Life is just a bed of pain or a way of speed breakers or a poorly maintained road or a river of fire…”


“The citizens of that town are always of that figure.”

“I want fun in everything, I don’t need a regular time, I want just enjoyment.”

”Bosses and officers are always rude and cruel, no matter which place they belong to.”

“Students are always innocent, emotional so they most treated strictly.”

“Kids interested in games and internet must fail in exams.”

“Best friend is who help you when you need.”

“Person with glasses always be a book worm.”

“Women named starting with (a,b,c…etc) are not suitable to merry.”

“Husbands having no good carrier can’t become a good husband.”

“Long height is the symbol for absence of mind.”

“Girl from a village must be unaware of many things.”

“Guys from a big city are always well mannered, wise and decent.”

“Chemistry looks bore to everyone in this world.”

“Student or researcher of psychology is always psycho.”

“Fat women are unable to live a happy marriage life.”

“Peoples of that nation are a symbol of danger to world’s piece.”

“Famous personality must have a happy life.”

“I am always right …. Others are wrong.”



What I discuss more, everyone of us is going to make laws to live, no one like variations in the creations of God, everyone wants to move this world on the way he wants, many of us repeating these bloody laws in their life and wish to make them applicable, why we bound want to bound anything in one statement, do you ever think?

Why we want to make laws in our social or personal life? Why we are unable to understand that truth isn’t truth for everyone? Do you think the reality for you must be reality for others? Why we want to disturb others by laws and principles made by us in ourselves due our certain, bounded observations and experience?

Do you think the reality for you must be reality by others? I so I think you need amendment in your concepts

Isn’t its extremism? Why we don’t allow our minds to grow separately, freely? Can someone clear me about this?

According to me there is no specification or principle for human life, there is no rule for the life, cause rule or law needs similarity in cases to be apply but you know that God has created everything in variation and every movement in variation; I think there is no end in sight and vision of human. There is no pet definition, if we have a pet definition then it must be, “definition is that there is no definition, formula is that there is no formula, Reality isn’t reality for everyone, truth is not truth for everyone.”

Story of Page

Sitting in the office I was much bore, tired of this , I tried to start writing some post with an empty and pumped mind, then my colleague joked me, “ are you writing on page ? “


And I replied “yeah “

2ndly he moved his tongue while typing “writing on what? “

I put my head down saying “nothing”

Then he advertise his teeth and said “then write on Page “

A bulb glows in my mind “PAGE “

Then I start thinking about page……



One of my colleague said, “Do you know pages are very honest?”

I exclaimed, “How?”

He answered while drilling the ceiling with his eyes,” they take the information from one to other without any change, editing and amendment.”



Once I was at home sitting in the lounge, my brother came and start telling his story, “Bro I was buy some sweet and shopkeeper pack the sweet in a newspaper, an old man with big glasses and brown sweater smile at me, ”boy ! Take care of the paper too, it’s useful.”

I took that paper and start reading it.

Deficiency of words to express

In fourth standard at school, fighting with a class fellow due to the issue of color box, giving her a tight slap, all the noise in class disappears like a naughty spirit, all eyes fix on me, she start crying with massive tears in her eyes, she leave the class, go to the staff room, complain the teacher.  Teacher calls me in her office; ask me, “Did you do this consciously?” I unable to understand the word “conscious” but guess that it means that all had done accidently, I say, “yes, I had done this consciously”, a noise clap enters my enters my ears, after few second I become able to understand that teacher slapped on me, after that I got punishment but have a lesson that I have few words to express me, I start feeling deficiency.

Now in the young age I am known to a lot of words to express myself, my feelings, my suggestions but there is still a problem that I have less words to express my feelings, I feel difficulty to express the exact thinking of my mind beside that I am known to thousands of words, to solve this I search on Google for the solution as a result got books for words vocabulary, buy a book “4000 words essentials for vocabulary of educative persons” , I think I got many words, also read English more and more on blogs, newspapers etc but still I need much more words to express my feelings and thinking, still I feel deficiency of words to tell others what I have and what I see.

Resulting all this I feel that every one of us feel deficiency to express what the feel, what they know, what they experience. May many of my readers agree with me or not but it is a great flaw in our languages and words that we feel deficiency to express. More I believe that the person having most advanced and comprehensive memory of words also deficiency of words to express.

Story of juggler

I heard a sound while I was sitting in my room. I opened the door and look in the street. At some steps I saw juggler with a little boy, sitting in the centre of crowd and wearing a huge colorful hat.

Juggler asked him, “Who is lazy?” boy replied, “one who get chance but don’t avail it due to its inner satisfaction.”

Juggler again asked him, “whose cruel?” boy replied, “Who don’t know what cruelty is but still tries to be cruel by his activities and also proves himself kind by his words.”

Juggler asked, “Whose terrorist?” boy replied, “who show to be social and nice but act to impart terror.”

Now juggler asked, “Who’s most successful?” boy replied, “Who don’t know success but still win.”

Juggler asked, “Whose educative?” boy replied, “one who knows how to deal and manage? “

Juggler asked, “Who’s the most beloved?” boy replied, “one who knows to make easy for others.”

Juggler asked, “Who’s the most beloved?” boy replied, “one who knows how to make easy for others.”

Then crowd start throwing coins and shouting to appreciate both juggler and his boy, they collect the coins and walk away leaving me in a depth of questions…..

Different styles of speech or talking to others

Amina sitting in her college canteen, age of 20, enjoying strawberry and French fries, with three of her friends, in very relax mode while talking to her friends her eyes looks finding something new around, may her eyes looking for the thing that can be unseen to others and just imagine by her at that time, has tension of result of exams announcing tomorrow but looking calm and cool, hiding her disruption in her self, her friends are unconsciously focusing on her every word cause she has habit to talk with courage, she don’t try to make fun of everything, she believes to talk when other quite and unable to solve or end a matter, her left leg is covered with right one but there is no vibration in legs as usually others do, she believes to be confident, against losing confident and hate over confident, her style of speech is not so over nor so creepy, she always tries not to let others to make fun of her speech, she hate those girls who every time discuss about others faults or back bites others or taking from ear to ear , many of times she drill her eyes into her friends eyes to focus on the sentence or statement, sometime she pause to get comments and responses…

Ali marketing from shop to shop, mall to mall, dealer to dealer, wearing a grey two piece with a blue tie, carrying a hand bag on his bike, giving him confidence at every step, charging himself while leaving the first shop and entering the second one, maintaining his personality, honor and confidence, adopting different styles of speech and talking to the clients, know how to peruse, learn from hundred of mistakes in talking impressing others by his boldness, courage and calmness, smiling due to his style of perusing, knows how to make his tongue sweet for others to make them agree for what they don’t agree usually, making a delightful rhythm of talking and gestures of hands and face moving his lips and eyes to give expressions of deep sincerity, maturity, experience, making others believe with movements of his   hands and tongue that they must have to trust him, known as the successful marketer of his company..

Kaleem doing job in government sector, have a professional diploma, a little satisfaction with his job, knows how to deal with those who look sincere with him but not actually, acquiring the knowledge from experienced ones, protecting himself by making extreme sincerity in official hours, doing all unconsciously but conscious with his mind that no one is here belong to him, giving the status of alien to all, trying to give impressions of dedication and sincerity to his  officers, taking the work seriously as much as he is serious about his salary after a month, listening everyone but talking when required, style of his speech are polite and serious , give smiles where needed, he can understand that job is job, duty is duty, fun and enjoyments are not a part of it, get experience from his mistakes, leaving those who want to make him friend and then want a funny company of him, good employer in sight of his boss, silence and pauses are most weapons he got in this war, appreciation and trust of officers come to him with in few months…

Still boring; doesn’t matter

Being alone in home or work place, nothing to do and nothing to play, nothing to watch and enjoy, times turns hard to pass. Have you tried all the ways to get rid of this bloody boring? Doesn’t matter I have some additions if these suites you try it, if not pray for me

Take two or three deep breath sit or lye where you feel comfortable.

Starts thinking about yourself, your daily routine, remind how many friends you have, start planning yourself, look in your past and get morals from mistakes, start thinking about tomorrow, combine dreams in your mind, look into the space, feel yourself flying, discovering and conquering, capture your aims and start refining them and start managing what you have to do to finish your goals and achieve your aims, dream about your success and make models of your success.

Believe me you find all this so effective

If you are not interested in above suggestions start remembering your loved ones, closed ones but it may hurts your heart.

One looks romantic while playing violin

I was searching with Google images search, when I saw a snap of a boy playing violin with a dark back ground. Boy was wearing a red dress and violin was of dark red color too.

That look so much romantic to me, I feel that mind start glowing and my heart start beating in a rhythm. The simple snap becomes a magic snap for me, the picture disturbs my emotions. Mean time I think why this violin feels to be so emotional and romantic to me? Why it has a look of peace, satisfaction and calm. Why many of listen violin to feel free?

I couldn’t find the reason may some knows why violin playing by a boy looks me so romantic?