Thursday, June 10, 2010

What Is Life ? ( Meaning Of Life )




Last night I hang out with my two friends, Frahan and Maaz.. We go to pizza hut then to a cafe then on a long walk. They both enjoy very much but I was puzzled in meaning of life. Before this hit my mind. I was enjoying the walk and feels to be satisfied, in peace, in haven but suddenly question came to my mind. 

(1) Why life is important? 

(2) What is life? 

(3) What is ideal life? 

(4) What is successful life? 

(5) Why do we want happiness in life? 

(6) Whats the reason is that we sometime hate this and got haven so we got a comfortable and successful life?

What is life? A questions having answers in millions of the books in this world. But why are we searching so much on this broad keyword? Why the modern man is so disturbed in life?

I ask Farhan, "Do you think this is life?" He amazed upon my question while Maaz start making fun of my question. He start saying ohhh! you wanna know life? Are you crazy, you didn't get from your whole life that what is life.

He was right but reality was that I don't exactly know what is life? My nature imposed me to get know about this topic more and more. On other side Farhan is sensitive, he started thinking for a quote, law or rule or even a pet answer about theory of life, that he will satisfied me and maybe his self too.

I enjoy that discussion and trouble of mind thrice. Suddenly I start getting the answer about meaning of life.

=> Life is that you can stand important of you. You life is name of searching for yourself, a universe of  complexion hope, love, friendship, relations, problems, difficulties, soul, mind and heart.

=> Life is a train its each class is like a small life in which we born and die, we get some and lose some, classes are different for different persons like.

* Childhood
* Teen age
* Youth age
* Old age
* School life
* College life
* University life 
* Professional life ( job or business )
* Parental life
* Sickness
* Accidents & problems in life
* Married & unmarried life

In all these little parts of life get & enroll with us or leave or lose things. But there is a great matter that engine in our hand but railway line is built by God, thats luck.

=> Life is the abbreviation to come close to your self, to know about your self, to play, enjoy, hang out with you. Life is charm of life.

=> Life is like a tall building having many floors, views and heights. Evey floor is differently built but base of upper is the roof of lower floor.There is difference of lighting and darkness on each floor. At last the building competes to its top floor and ends.

=> Life means a large, established and developed modern society in which we have homes and their views, business and its passion, clubs and their chill, parks and their enjoyments, markets and theirs algorithms, church, mosque or temple and their and theirs blessings.

=> What is life?
* Life is like a rainbow, having different colors and looks
* Life life is like a shopping mall, having a lot of persons to sell and buy,getting their best and saving their best
* Life is , I understand that you are a life and you understand that I am life


Sunday, June 6, 2010

Tips For Happy And Successful Life ( Causes For Happiness In Life )

Hy ! you wanna live a happy life, free of tension life, stress free life. Its a good idea but how much you worried about it, a little or facing hardly about this. I think, we just think about happy but not think about happiness  for us.

Two year's ago I have the craze about happy successful life, I didn't concentrate on the activities and happening  which gave me happiness too me. Now, when I think about that I usually have smile upon my concepts of happy and successful life.

A month ago a meeting with my friends, we have joy full dinner with tea, discussion start about the way of happy life. My friend is actually a religious type his concept about happy life are that performing of religious and spiritual nuts gave happy and successful life for us.

Instead my believe is that happiness success, satisfaction and ideal concept of life are totally by the way of life by the luck and by the effort.

Happiness and success are not stick to only one or some religion in the world, cause of happiness are different for different person. There is no law, no rule for the human psychology  and happy is one, who know that what is happiness.



Last week, I saw a shopkeeper, he was very interesting to me by the topic of success. He briefs to his every customer, the style, ways, activities and experience of his life. He feels honor of publishing his success stories and be proud that he had done bolds tasks, complete unlimited and impossible targets in his field of work. If you have such an experience just observe the secret and reality of success, may you have the cause which end for happiness.

I have a good friend named tauseef  he think that richness is the cause of happiness, he is the fan of materialism. He has many shocking concepts that
" One who say that happiness is not for sale any where, doesn't know where to shop it".



He think wealth, dollar, ponds give happiness for a person. He dreamed before me often that he has to become the richest person of the word.

If i say something about cause of happiness in life, in my view wealth and money can be cause of happiness but important thing is that its comes from the honest, peace and legal sources. The person who is rich and wants happiness should  have  honest, pious and neat earning, I guaranteed this thing that it works.

Simple and final is that if you want a happy and successful life you must have to be pious, leave greediness and  be honest.

"Don't disturb others happiness you will be happy"








How We Spend The Successful And Happy Life


First we discuss what is life?
     The life is passage of time in which we deal with some problems and some happiness.

In my views the second name of life is "busy"

There are many matters and techniques if we act upon those then we always spend happy and successful life.

Life is neither a name of enjoyment nor a boring.For successful life first of fall you need a partner. That partner is friend, girl friend or wife. Because loneliness is baddest  thing of the world in my views but sometimes i preferred it.

If your behavior is good, polite, charming, pleasure and nice with all people, who meet you, are always impress from your's personality. If your behavior is harsh, bad and unpleasant then no one want to meet you and think bad about you.

The big factor of successful and happy life is depend upon the smiling face. Mostly people ignore this but if you have the smiling and charming face then all the people attract towards you. People mostly told the beauty is very necessary for the happy life. But it's not a fair. If your good with his/her family members, friends and other normal people. Its guaranteed to you for spend the happy and successful life.

In other side we see some ups anddowns in life but we are not afraid of him because those works are done by God.In my views the conclusion is


" If you have good character, positive thinking for all the matters with having good nature then you happy, successful, peaceful, wonderful, amazing and outstanding life".


   ** One thing remember that in life all the matters depend upon you and your decision**











10 Cause For Happiness In Life:-


=> Main cause for happiness in life is your earning, believe me if you concentrate properly on my suggestion you will get that earning is the main cause of happiness.


                Pious earning honest profit or neat salary gives you happiness, in whole of your life, the internal success for you to you is by honest by piousness and wiseness.


                Try this, that the best cause for the success and happy life.


=> Control of anger and another reason of happiness, anger has direct effect on the happiness and the successful life.


                Annoying with someone decrease hope and charm between mind so try tricks and tips to control anger.


=> Behavior and manner also effect the life and its happiness. Everyone know good behavior and manners glow up the personality but a few of us knows that how to get good manners and avoid odd behavior.


=> Single is one of the most successful cause make a happy, usually it is said that laughing make us happy but if you practice 15-20 days of smile we will really get happy and successful any many matters and tasks of the life comes in our hands.


laughing is the just happiness for small time but smile give you glow up internally.

Materialism Vs Happiness

Materialism and happiness are commonly said to be opposite of each other but broadly we can say if every thing is manage then materialism greatly support to happiness.

I think this is a concept that materialism reduces happiness. Firstly, What is materialism? Secondly How dose materialism effect happiness, feelings, emotions and love.

If i take the example of a farmer who lives simply in his fields, his contact with other world is just basic and little. He enjoyed a healthy, happy and satisfied life but the matter is that when I collected the view of such persons they said that they are living hard, uncomfortable and harsh.type of life.

On the other side, if i take the example of a busy job man who live in a large city, have a crowded life. His life is full of hurry and hurry. By his views his life is full of worries, tensions and problems, he had facilities of good life, by materialism he get everything except peace of mind, satisfaction of life along this he says that there is absence of happiness, fun, wisdom and other spiritual values.

Reality is that happiness doesn't depend upon materialism, feelings has no to deal with the materialism. one who lives simplest life of the era and after who has the clash with the complex, busy and modern style of life for this age, both are unsatisfied, still searching for happiness, Blaming material and modern age for happiness

The reason is that many humans do not know what is happiness and what is causes of happiness for from? They do not know by which happing they can live happily. the result is absolutely reflecting that thousand of us searching for.

=> How to live a happy life?

=> How to lead a happy and successful life?

 ** Tips for a happy life:-


But still there is the satisfaction about answer those who know about happiness and materialism and there relations are living satisfactorily, ideally. Materialism doesn't effect happiness or unhappiness.
solution is that there is no specific law or principal for everyone to be happy and successful effects of happiness and materialism are different from everyone. So success for the happy life is that explore your way for happiness focus upon those things.that make you happy, forgot about harmful, harsh and hopeless concept and conditions.

=> Be honest with others then you will be happy.

=> Don't disturb others happiness you will be happy.

=> Don't try be un-materialistic in case you are trying to be un-realistic.

=> Smiling is the best way to be happy and give happiness to others, instead laughing has also bad impact so avoid as much as you can.

How To Make Friends


              People make friend to share some problems, to spend time, for entertainment and enjoyment. Friend making is not a bad habit but making more and more friends is not for us. Because every person is not same in nature, character, thinking.

              Some people make more friends but not show sincerity with anyone. That's not a good friend. A man who help you in every matter of your life and gave you advise in every problem that's like a good and sincere friend. Friend making is not a hobby for anyone.

              Mostly people like loneliness but in my point of view friendship is a best, great, trusted relation is friendship in the whole world.

            When we make friends ? ....

               We make friend when we dis heart and feel loneliness. First we see some things in his/her such as thinking, character, his/her school of thought, nature. If they are close to your nature then add his/her in friend list and also show sincerity in friendship.

               These are some characteristics of good friendship

=>   If you make a good friend then spend some time daily with them and notice his/ her nature. Because if his   / her nature near to you then may b he/she should be your good friend.

=>  In friendship first u trust on his/her. If a single soul dwelling in a two bodies is known as a good friendship.

                  Remember in friendship we not see the religions, casts and color.

                  ** If u spend a happy life with lots of enjoyment, pleasures and happiness then u also want a partner. the good partner of your life is your good friend.**

                  ** In friendship we share all the problems with friends. If the problem is negative or positive. Because they are also know your nature and gave you good advise.**

                   If u impress your friend with your behavior, nature, characters and thinking at that time you think u cross the 2nd step of  friendship.

                   Friendship is not depend upon your's beauty, richness. It is also depend upon your sincerity, love, and school of thought.

Thursday, June 3, 2010

Quotes

              =>If you wanna be great, rich or leader then in your mind that

             " The bigger the vehicle the more if get trouble of rush"
            On the other side if you get trouble more then others you are great because a truck has to face more traffic then a sports car.


         => Emotional is a good one but too emotional is abnormal.

             Confuse is good one but too confuse is unsuitable.

             Intelligent is good one but too intelligent is psycho.

             Sensitive is good one but too sensitive is unfit.

             Confidence is good but overconfidence is unbearable.

             Tension free is good but irresponsible is failure.

           Genius is appreciated but too genius is degraded.

           Naughty can be hold but too naughty is out of order.

           Funny is liked but too funny is disturb.

           Serious is needed but too serious is unbearable.

           wise is good but clever becomes odd.

=>  Nothing is good & Nothing Is bad in this Universe But Thinking Made it Good or Bad________!!!



Wednesday, June 2, 2010

What is first impression? ( Philosophy Of first impression)

    ** : First impression is that you know how to deal.


    **  : First impression is that you know how to meet.


    **  : Knowing of decent dressing is first impression includes your selection of wearing style according to the environment.


    **  : Good speaking, is a  good impression. Bass and maturity in speaking is a positive first impression. It also includes speaking style, speed of speech, pauses makes a nice impression.


     **  : First impression is that how to control your feelings, confusion, suspense and emotions. How much you are effected by an event are how much not.


     **  : Power of management, skills of leadership, justice of feelings, strongroom of ideas and concepts are also include in first impression.


     **  : Manners matter a lot in impression. Your attitude to others the inside view of your personality. To deal well is first impression and to perform well is your last impression.


      **  : Polite speaking is good for the first impression, along with charming smile, glowing eyes, satisfied expression.


      ** : Major of all is a worm handshake, standing, getting confidence, showing wiseness and losing cleverness is first impression.