What Is Life ? ( Meaning Of Life )

Last night I hang out with my two friends, Frahan and Maaz.. We go to pizza hut then to a cafe then on a long walk. They both enjoy very much but I was puzzled in meaning of life. Before this hit my mind. I was enjoying the walk and feels to be satisfied, in peace, in haven but suddenly question came to my mind. 

(1) Why life is important? 

(2) What is life? 

(3) What is ideal life? 

(4) What is successful life? 

(5) Why do we want happiness in life? 

(6) Whats the reason is that we sometime hate this and got haven so we got a comfortable and successful life?

What is life? A questions having answers in millions of the books in this world. But why are we searching so much on this broad keyword? Why the modern man is so disturbed in life?

I ask Farhan, "Do you think this is life?" He amazed upon my question while Maaz start making fun of my question. He start saying ohhh! you wanna know life? Are you crazy, you didn't get from your whole life that what is life.

He was right but reality was that I don't exactly know what is life? My nature imposed me to get know about this topic more and more. On other side Farhan is sensitive, he started thinking for a quote, law or rule or even a pet answer about theory of life, that he will satisfied me and maybe his self too.

I enjoy that discussion and trouble of mind thrice. Suddenly I start getting the answer about meaning of life.

=> Life is that you can stand important of you. You life is name of searching for yourself, a universe of  complexion hope, love, friendship, relations, problems, difficulties, soul, mind and heart.

=> Life is a train its each class is like a small life in which we born and die, we get some and lose some, classes are different for different persons like.

* Childhood

* Teen age

* Youth age

* Old age

* School life

* College life

* University life 

* Professional life ( job or business )

* Parental life

* Sickness

* Accidents & problems in life

* Married & unmarried life

In all these little parts of life get & enroll with us or leave or lose things. But there is a great matter that engine in our hand but railway line is built by God, thats luck.

=> Life is the abbreviation to come close to your self, to know about your self, to play, enjoy, hang out with you. Life is charm of life.

=> Life is like a tall building having many floors, views and heights. Evey floor is differently built but base of upper is the roof of lower floor.There is difference of lighting and darkness on each floor. At last the building competes to its top floor and ends.

=> Life means a large, established and developed modern society in which we have homes and their views, business and its passion, clubs and their chill, parks and their enjoyments, markets and theirs algorithms, church, mosque or temple and their and theirs blessings.

=> What is life?

* Life is like a rainbow, having different colors and looks

* Life life is like a shopping mall, having a lot of persons to sell and buy,getting their best and saving their best

* Life is , I understand that you are a life and you understand that I am life

Tips For Happy And Successful Life ( Causes For Happiness In Life )

Hy ! you wanna live a happy life, free of tension life, stress free life. Its a good idea but how much you worried about it, a little or facing hardly about this. I think, we just think about happy but not think about happiness  for us.

Two year's ago I have the craze about happy successful life, I didn't concentrate on the activities and happening  which gave me happiness too me. Now, when I think about that I usually have smile upon my concepts of happy and successful life.

A month ago a meeting with my friends, we have joy full dinner with tea, discussion start about the way of happy life. My friend is actually a religious type his concept about happy life are that performing of religious and spiritual nuts gave happy and successful life for us.

Instead my believe is that happiness success, satisfaction and ideal concept of life are totally by the way of life by the luck and by the effort.

Happiness and success are not stick to only one or some religion in the world, cause of happiness are different for different person. There is no law, no rule for the human psychology  and happy is one, who know that what is happiness.



Last week, I saw a shopkeeper, he was very interesting to me by the topic of success. He briefs to his every customer, the style, ways, activities and experience of his life. He feels honor of publishing his success stories and be proud that he had done bolds tasks, complete unlimited and impossible targets in his field of work. If you have such an experience just observe the secret and reality of success, may you have the cause which end for happiness.

I have a good friend named tauseef  he think that richness is the cause of happiness, he is the fan of materialism. He has many shocking concepts that
" One who say that happiness is not for sale any where, doesn't know where to shop it".



He think wealth, dollar, ponds give happiness for a person. He dreamed before me often that he has to become the richest person of the word.

If i say something about cause of happiness in life, in my view wealth and money can be cause of happiness but important thing is that its comes from the honest, peace and legal sources. The person who is rich and wants happiness should  have  honest, pious and neat earning, I guaranteed this thing that it works.

Simple and final is that if you want a happy and successful life you must have to be pious, leave greediness and  be honest.

"Don't disturb others happiness you will be happy"








How We Spend The Successful And Happy Life


First we discuss what is life?
     The life is passage of time in which we deal with some problems and some happiness.

In my views the second name of life is "busy"

There are many matters and techniques if we act upon those then we always spend happy and successful life.

Life is neither a name of enjoyment nor a boring.For successful life first of fall you need a partner. That partner is friend, girl friend or wife. Because loneliness is baddest  thing of the world in my views but sometimes i preferred it.

If your behavior is good, polite, charming, pleasure and nice with all people, who meet you, are always impress from your's personality. If your behavior is harsh, bad and unpleasant then no one want to meet you and think bad about you.

The big factor of successful and happy life is depend upon the smiling face. Mostly people ignore this but if you have the smiling and charming face then all the people attract towards you. People mostly told the beauty is very necessary for the happy life. But it's not a fair. If your good with his/her family members, friends and other normal people. Its guaranteed to you for spend the happy and successful life.

In other side we see some ups anddowns in life but we are not afraid of him because those works are done by God.In my views the conclusion is


" If you have good character, positive thinking for all the matters with having good nature then you happy, successful, peaceful, wonderful, amazing and outstanding life".


   ** One thing remember that in life all the matters depend upon you and your decision**










10 Cause For Happiness In Life:-


=> Main cause for happiness in life is your earning, believe me if you concentrate properly on my suggestion you will get that earning is the main cause of happiness.


                Pious earning honest profit or neat salary gives you happiness, in whole of your life, the internal success for you to you is by honest by piousness and wiseness.


                Try this, that the best cause for the success and happy life.


=> Control of anger and another reason of happiness, anger has direct effect on the happiness and the successful life.


                Annoying with someone decrease hope and charm between mind so try tricks and tips to control anger.


=> Behavior and manner also effect the life and its happiness. Everyone know good behavior and manners glow up the personality but a few of us knows that how to get good manners and avoid odd behavior.


=> Single is one of the most successful cause make a happy, usually it is said that laughing make us happy but if you practice 15-20 days of smile we will really get happy and successful any many matters and tasks of the life comes in our hands.


laughing is the just happiness for small time but smile give you glow up internally.

Materialism Vs Happiness

Materialism and happiness are commonly said to be opposite of each other but broadly we can say if every thing is manage then materialism greatly support to happiness.

I think this is a concept that materialism reduces happiness. Firstly, What is materialism? Secondly How dose materialism effect happiness, feelings, emotions and love.

If i take the example of a farmer who lives simply in his fields, his contact with other world is just basic and little. He enjoyed a healthy, happy and satisfied life but the matter is that when I collected the view of such persons they said that they are living hard, uncomfortable and harsh.type of life.

On the other side, if i take the example of a busy job man who live in a large city, have a crowded life. His life is full of hurry and hurry. By his views his life is full of worries, tensions and problems, he had facilities of good life, by materialism he get everything except peace of mind, satisfaction of life along this he says that there is absence of happiness, fun, wisdom and other spiritual values.

Reality is that happiness doesn't depend upon materialism, feelings has no to deal with the materialism. one who lives simplest life of the era and after who has the clash with the complex, busy and modern style of life for this age, both are unsatisfied, still searching for happiness, Blaming material and modern age for happiness

The reason is that many humans do not know what is happiness and what is causes of happiness for from? They do not know by which happing they can live happily. the result is absolutely reflecting that thousand of us searching for.

=> How to live a happy life?

=> How to lead a happy and successful life?

 ** Tips for a happy life:-


But still there is the satisfaction about answer those who know about happiness and materialism and there relations are living satisfactorily, ideally. Materialism doesn't effect happiness or unhappiness.
solution is that there is no specific law or principal for everyone to be happy and successful effects of happiness and materialism are different from everyone. So success for the happy life is that explore your way for happiness focus upon those things.that make you happy, forgot about harmful, harsh and hopeless concept and conditions.

=> Be honest with others then you will be happy.

=> Don't disturb others happiness you will be happy.

=> Don't try be un-materialistic in case you are trying to be un-realistic.

=> Smiling is the best way to be happy and give happiness to others, instead laughing has also bad impact so avoid as much as you can.

How To Make Friends

              People make friend to share some problems, to spend time, for entertainment and enjoyment. Friend making is not a bad habit but making more and more friends is not for us. Because every person is not same in nature, character, thinking.

              Some people make more friends but not show sincerity with anyone. That's not a good friend. A man who help you in every matter of your life and gave you advise in every problem that's like a good and sincere friend. Friend making is not a hobby for anyone.

              Mostly people like loneliness but in my point of view friendship is a best, great, trusted relation is friendship in the whole world.

            When we make friends ? ....

               We make friend when we dis heart and feel loneliness. First we see some things in his/her such as thinking, character, his/her school of thought, nature. If they are close to your nature then add his/her in friend list and also show sincerity in friendship.

               These are some characteristics of good friendship

=>   If you make a good friend then spend some time daily with them and notice his/ her nature. Because if his   / her nature near to you then may b he/she should be your good friend.

=>  In friendship first u trust on his/her. If a single soul dwelling in a two bodies is known as a good friendship.

                  Remember in friendship we not see the religions, casts and color.

                  ** If u spend a happy life with lots of enjoyment, pleasures and happiness then u also want a partner. the good partner of your life is your good friend.**

                  ** In friendship we share all the problems with friends. If the problem is negative or positive. Because they are also know your nature and gave you good advise.**

                   If u impress your friend with your behavior, nature, characters and thinking at that time you think u cross the 2nd step of  friendship.

                   Friendship is not depend upon your's beauty, richness. It is also depend upon your sincerity, love, and school of thought.

Quotes

              =>If you wanna be great, rich or leader then in your mind that

             " The bigger the vehicle the more if get trouble of rush"
            On the other side if you get trouble more then others you are great because a truck has to face more traffic then a sports car.


         => Emotional is a good one but too emotional is abnormal.

             Confuse is good one but too confuse is unsuitable.

             Intelligent is good one but too intelligent is psycho.

             Sensitive is good one but too sensitive is unfit.

             Confidence is good but overconfidence is unbearable.

             Tension free is good but irresponsible is failure.

           Genius is appreciated but too genius is degraded.

           Naughty can be hold but too naughty is out of order.

           Funny is liked but too funny is disturb.

           Serious is needed but too serious is unbearable.

           wise is good but clever becomes odd.

=>  Nothing is good & Nothing Is bad in this Universe But Thinking Made it Good or Bad________!!!

What is first impression? ( Philosophy Of first impression)

    ** : First impression is that you know how to deal.


    **  : First impression is that you know how to meet.


    **  : Knowing of decent dressing is first impression includes your selection of wearing style according to the environment.


    **  : Good speaking, is a  good impression. Bass and maturity in speaking is a positive first impression. It also includes speaking style, speed of speech, pauses makes a nice impression.


     **  : First impression is that how to control your feelings, confusion, suspense and emotions. How much you are effected by an event are how much not.


     **  : Power of management, skills of leadership, justice of feelings, strongroom of ideas and concepts are also include in first impression.


     **  : Manners matter a lot in impression. Your attitude to others the inside view of your personality. To deal well is first impression and to perform well is your last impression.


      **  : Polite speaking is good for the first impression, along with charming smile, glowing eyes, satisfied expression.


      ** : Major of all is a worm handshake, standing, getting confidence, showing wiseness and losing cleverness is first impression.

The Difference Between Human And Evil

              Human and evil differ not only due to matter of creation, beside fire and clay. They had many difference and similarities.

            ** Proudhon in evil and bow down  in human.

            ** Human has mercy but evil lack this.

            ** Feelings for others and understanding the feelings of others are all the properties of human.

            ** Evil always think of harm, hurt others but human has the nature to friendly and emotional

            ** Thinking of a evil.is to collect everything to it self and to destroy or capture others.

How To Mange Your Speaking Speed

             Are you a fast speakers? People can't understand often, what are you saying? Friend make your fun on your speaking style? Are you losing confidence due to all of these happening?

            Here are some suggestion for you If you are trouble like this.

     ** Be clam, unworried, gave your lips a nice smile, stand, firmly or sit comfortably, give your body parts a slow motion. Don't let any part to vibrate and move to and fro.

     ** Use comfortable dresses, try to get rid of so many ideas and thinking in your mind. Don't mind on what ever is going around, Don't be so sensitive.

            These things as thinking normal are ineffective to speed of speaking of a person but research and surveys fells us have great results of speech of a person, style of feeling, asking, question and exclaiming by a person.

               Just  practice these habits three or four days and lead it to one week, you will greatly found it use full for manging your speed of speaking, peace of mind, feelings of satisfaction, calmness of heart.

               Getting these points in your mind:-

           => Be comfortable ( sit or stand )

           => As you feel well and easy.

           => give your self a smile.

           => Lightly try to control your ideas and thinking.

           => strongly try to manage your emotions, feelings, confidence, happiness, and others features those dis            heart you.

            => get control over motions style of motions of your body part.

           => Be confident, charming, cool and forceful.

              After practicing all this you get a great effect of these on your style of speech and speed of speaking.

              Now come to original matter and focus on your speech get notice of your tongue what others understand from you. Now give attention of your speech, your style of speech, your speed of speech, your way of talking.

            I'm asking some points to the way of talk.

           => Be polite in talking.

           => give sweet smile and pause in speaking.

           => Don`t let your voice volume too loud or too low just let it according to the requirement of the solution.

           =>Have confidence and calmness in your voice.

7 Tips To Be Prominent Student In The Class

             Every student want to be prominent in their class but few of them get to target and many lose their way to success.


            Here are some tips or techniques to be a prominent student in a class.


      ** Be well dressed, dress should be neat and clean. Main thing about dressing is color combination and fitting. To be a prominent quality and look matters greatly for a student.


      ** Speeching style give student a very appreciative look, talking voice, properly, giving pause, bass in sound gives a prominent look of a student.


      ** languages usages, combination of words, selection of most suitable sentences gives one style of speech which elaborate the personality of a student. To be a prominent language and speech greatly matters for a student.


     ** Attitude like friendly and participative, social when occur in positive style in a student give him a prominent, appreciative look.


     ** Manner of dealing, discussing, questioning, answering give shine to a student personality. Laughing so much should be avoided and every moment should be handled with a sweet, stable and confident smile.


     ** Bold attitude, courage in task and projects, confident in studding steps, getting believe of teachers makes a student prominent in the class.


     ** All the things I have mentioned in above six points need one by one practice to gradually become a prominent student.

Feelings Of Loneliness

            Feelings of loneliness are sometime very painful and harsh, In loneliness one feel to be helpless, alone, he thinks that its the ending ending of  everything his life, love, soul, and heart.

           Loneliness feels different to different persons and different to one person at different times, Feelings of loneliness, their effects and results depend upon the factor mentioned above.

           By thinking of loneliness negative effects are more significant that its cause dis hearting, depression, tension   and unhappiness. These are due to that the person wants to be social and like gathering, so that in absence of his beloved ones and  friends he fell in the fear of loneliness.

          And if we focus to the advantages and benefits of feelings of loneliness. If  happens when we are alone with us mentally, hearting, we enjoy our soul, ideology, concepts of  life. In this type of loneliness we are able to know about us.

         In my view many of great mind given to this world is by this type of feelings of loneliness. This situation give wisdom of heart openness of mind, brighting of souls.

         So loneliness, if manage properly, gives a delightful feelings.


Value of Loneliness

      

     To be alone satisfied with loneliness, determines us value of loneliness. loneliness is much valuable when its grow in suitable conditions and environment, it gives human those powers and abilities which makes one a human in real sense.

       The great minds know the value of loneliness because wisdom, piousness wiseness, leadership, qualities, decision making, solution of depression, overconfidence and many more comes from the results and effects of loneliness.

     Many of the average minds in this world thinkings the these no value of loneliness but that loneliness beside gathering and society gives many positive result.

Knowledge is the Study of Business of Everything ( Quotes )

*  Knowledge is the study of business of everything, by which we can know how to get profit and avoid loss, get success and avoid failure, get satisfaction and avoid disturbance, get peace and avoid clash, get something but avoid nothing.

* If you believe that no one comes to this world like you then  .........   Do that which no one do in this world !

* Everyone is similar because all are human but  ...........   Everyone is different because all are different human.

* Its isn't necessary that  everyones way is similar may be one has a different goal.

* If procedure is understandable just by theory no one in this world need practical experience.

* Words of one may be a silent  .......   and  .......  Silent of one may be more then a speech.

* Everything you do is love and everything done by you is love.

Fear of Loneliness

 Why people afraid to be alone ?

Why loneliness is hasted by some people ?

Why do people have fear of loneliness ?

             When we think about all these questions we are thinking to save us but in my point of view loneliness is beautiful thing, It has many advantages, many beautiful effects, many precious results.

          I want to ask those who personally afraid from loneliness, that if you have it your are lucky but its just a loneliness of mind, of soul, of thinks, the loneliness from relations, beloved once is so harsh and fearful.

         To be alone is the great factor of life because many the people are in search of loneliness when they become scared from their busy social life.

         So don't afraid to be alone, to give some fine, to just your self.


Loneliness and depression

 Yes you find me correct, that i am talking about depression due to loneliness. How does loneliness results a situation of depression ?

          If you have question you must have to search for the answer. These are many views and ideas about this but I think matter is just one that.

          " Loneliness cause depression when depression cause loneliness "

         I think you got the answer, its just a difference in behavior, thinking and attitude, but solution is that you should not afraid from depression when you are alone stand and try to feel happy in loneliness then you will get rid of this problem just don't take if as a problem it doesn't becomes a problem for you.

        Don't be so afraid and sensitive, be  simple get advantages of every thing weather its gathering or loneliness, depression or fear. You will get all.

What is Loneliness ?

             Loneliness a fear for every sensitive person, why people are afraid from loneliness? what is loneliness ? Why some like to be alone ? What the hell is to be alone ? And many more questions but everyone cannot be assure by this.

          Loneliness is of many types :

   1 : Physical loneliness:


             Physical loneliness is common, every can see, understand that one is alone at this time, no one is near him, no one close to him, to him to talk, enjoy or share.

   2 : Mental loneliness:


             Mental loneliness is fearful that one cannot share his feeling, emotions nothing around him to enjoy play laugh and hug.


             In this type of loneliness one may have gathering in loneliness.
             Its very complex to understand it, its effects, and results.

Benefits Of Loneliness

        A general concept about loneliness is that its hunt, its painful, when I was a child I heard that "Everything in this world has advantages and disadvantages".

       If I think normally loneliness has its disadvantages more and may be one or two beneficial thing it. I have also heard a quote "loneliness is the the place where great minds grow up". In case to be to be alone is the great factor for make up of mind, idea, concepts, emotions, answers.

      You had seen in your life many people who like to spend their spare time alone. Many of them like nature, beauty, poetry, fiction etc.I can say that loneliness give you time to get close your interests. If you have artistic or spiritual nature, there is a great chance that you like to be alone.

      Actually loneliness gives you to you, u can give time to yourself, your ideas, thinkings, some your problems, plan about your future. When your alone tried from your normal, crowded life you come close to yourself and start thinking about you, the most complex machine in the universe.

      If you have read about many great names in the history, that they are alone maximum time, they wanna loneliness to fulfill their soul and mind to get peace and wisdom.

      Survey reports tells that loneliness is a way to get rid of most tensions because we think deeply and whole heartedly in the matter which we are facing . To be alone for sometime regularly, daily or weekly, and giving yourself a few minutes greatly reduced depression.

      So in my suggestion give yourself time along with your works, activities, games, hanging out, and what ever u like  to do in your loneliness spare time just try you will really get that what your searching for..........

Benefits Of Gathering

              Gathering a word of making smiles, a tool to get heart, closed, an event for which everyone tried to free from his business, job or studies.

              Nature of human is social so automatically human like society, family and friends to enjoy his life time. Gathering benefits are endless. What we get when we met others in at classroom, office, club, playground, park, home or a commercial place? The answer of benefits of gathering is so long as long as infinity.

               People shares ideas with each others.

  1 : We earn experience others natures, habits, interest, quantities and likes and dislikes.

  2 : In gathering we can share experience of professional life, social life, residential problems.

  3 : We can discuss other peoples, concepts, revolutions, problems, solutions.

              As such benefits of gathering are unable for a pen to write, for a book to describe. for a  man to search.

              But gathering still gives much more to us actually the word experience is greatly related to gathering. So we can get wisdom of life solutions of problems, confidence in complexion.

              Its a universal truth that gathering gives us the concept:

  1 : How to live ?

  2 : How to get aim of life ?

  3: How to  serve others ?

  4 : How to carry out the relations ?

  5 :How to be successful ?

How to Improve Your Walking Style

        A way of attraction walking style whether you are a male or female walking style matters to your attraction. Models and actors practice theirs walking styles according to their needs.

       A common human looks good to walk in a certain passion. Those who have attractive decent and appreciative walking style are ideal for those who wanna copy them and to walk like them.

       Some general suggestions to improve your walking styles are :

   1 : First get control on your walking speed neither too fast nor too slow, but walk in a standard manner. Walking style greatly depend upon the speed to walk.

       A good standard in speed can be maintain by the practice of three to four days.

   2 : posture while walking is in an effective manner commonly a calm, peaceful, satisfied posture is good looking.

  3 : walking style does not just depends upon the movement of legs,hand also matter. The movement of hand should not be so fast or slow in too or fro manner but in an equilibrium style.

       Many looks good to walk just due to their movement of hands.

  4 : Movement of other body parts like head also matters, good walking style needs very slow movement of head.

First Impression

          Research reports falls us that people largely made up their ming about a person with in the first five minutes of meeting him or her.

          How can I define first impression? A firm hand shake, sustained eye contact, a warm smile, good posture and inferencing yourself in a relaxed and confident manner.

          To learn about a five impression, you should observe other roll models around you, about them you can say that they are ideal to me for this.

          First impression not only depends upon what you had wear? Whats your hairstyle? How types of shoes, sandals you have? All these things matters a lot, you have to take great care of it, but along with this you must have :

  1 : peace in  your mind,

  2 : fresh mode,

  3 : a charming expression,

  4 : calmness in your body (stability of your hands, legs, etc),

  5 : your eye contact,

  6 : straight head position,

  7 : your style to sit and stand.....

        Beside all these your style of dressing, hairs and some other things like bands, watch, ribbons etc, effect due to your current, if you are in an office all this goes to fine, conservative, decent, simple and if you are in a get together or park your first impression goes more satisfied in a cool, smart and easy passion.

        First impression greatly depends upon your age,its phase in different ages are different. first impression look and its needs changes from a kid to a teenager, from teenager to a young, from young to a mature and to old.

      So keeps these generals things in your mind and search and observe the things thats suits you, your sex, environment, your age and other things that you can recognize to improve your impression especially first impression.

Seven Ways to Get Respect

                   Respect is a desire, a need, a matter for which a man can do what ever he earn. Many times the hunger of richness is to get respect.

Q : How can we get respect?

 Q :How can desire me?

 Q :How can my personality become respectable?

As for as i'm concern i observe this matter as following:

1 : "Give Respect and Love Respect"

                  Respect others, respect your company, respect your relation, respect your colleagues, companions, relatives, beloved ones and close ones.

2 : "Respect Due to Attitude"

                 Try to make your attitude operative, social. Be calm at harsh movements, try to control your anger as much as you can. Resolve the problem and patience. Face the difficulties and openness always scan your attitude just like one mirror in yourself.

3 : "Respect Due to Personality"

                Give your personality a good look. Elaborate finely your dressing, makeup, hairstyles. Give leadership shape to your style to standing, walking and sitting.

* Think about your perfection from every angle of your personality.

* Make yourself attractive as much as you can and remember "simplicity is maturity".

* Decent in your style make your look a respectable.

4 : "Respect Due to language"

            Tongue is the device which shape your personality in others mind. Talking, conversation and speech of a person show '90%' of what he is, language style represent you more then anything in you.

* So be polite, be patient, be bold, have courage, have dignity, have confidence in your voice, your speech, your conversation, your meetings .

* Give your voice a power that others respect you, accept your ideas, your feelings, your thinking.

* If u want to make you a successful man than first of all you improve your tongue  power. The tongue power is a GOD gifted thing but if you have tongue power then you have world in your hand.

* Learn the voice at successful persons around you, observe their style of speech, style to talk etc.

5 : " Get Respect With Love"


              When I talk about the love, I talk about the most powerful force.If you have love for everything, every person ultimately you got attraction to then and similarly they to you.

6 : "laugh and smile"


             There is no doubt that laughing is like gold for life but smile has many more advantages then a laugh.


* You had observe the great, ideal, respectable persons that smile often but laugh rare. why do they do this?
  copy them you observe changes in few days.

7 : "use you mind"


* Also observe other ways that you think necessary for getting respect according to your culture, society, economics and other situations.

* By this you will final '60%' of useful points that leads you t a respectable person.

Love with Friends

=> Everyone love his friends because they are the only relation which a man made himself so these persons are two close to one.

=> If ceiling falls .......... run out if sky falls ........... pause.

=> If you are charming ......then become the charm of others.

=> To love someone is to idealize someone.

=> Student is one who wants to study.

=> To study yourself is not to study a man body.........its to study the universe.

=> The greatest hope is achieved after greatest hopeless thing.

=> The honor in the society is to be great but great has no honor in the society.

=> Make yourself such neat and clean that mirror can see itself in you.

=> Why we make life a harsh dream? ......... we can make it a pretty prediction.

=> The aim of human completed when he is able to recognize his status his God's status.

=> The top most blessing is to be a human.

=> The beauty speech is given by speech beauty.

=> Who is God?

* Who creates by destroying and destroy by creation?

* Who give up by? who give growth?

* Who manage every thing

Remedy and Time

             Recovery or remedy is most charming happening in the life. It makes the life in continuous mode after the problems, Dis hearts.

            Remedies make us able to stand and face the life again because life is full of troubles and worries, man struggles throughout his life to get rid of there to find the satisfaction, smoothness and happiness.

           According to me the time is the best recovery of any harm, disease, and problem. A time is universal bandage to every matter, its a natural treatment to every quarrel.

           Its a remedy to all type of diseases, harms, complete worries and hard times. So hard time is leveled by the good time.

           There is a bad property of good time its never be good till last and there is a good property in bad time its never be bad till last.

          So there good after every bad and Therese bad after every good. So don't worry, time is like an alternating current its alternate from time to time.

Researching Yourself

        Many people incorrectly assume that they know themselves well enough and that they don't need to spend time thinking about themselves.

        It is important to think your self and to reflect on how your experiences have prepared you. It is also important be able to articulate to a stranger what he or she is interested about you. It may awkward at first to talk about yourself if you are not accustomed to it.

To think about yourself, consider the followings:

=> Long-standing as well as brand-new interests and hobbies.

=> Talents and ability that you have.

=> Skills that you would like to develop or improve.

=> Activities and tasks that you would like to avoid.

=> Lifestyle, earnings , location.

=> Kinds of people and environments that you prefer.

=> Current career and educational goals.

=> Past experiences that you would like to highlight and what you have learned from them.

=> These could be ANY kind of experiences including work, volunteer, academic, artistic and travel.

Think broadly.....

A mirror

          World most beautiful thing because its help us to take care of us more and more.Everyone, many times in a day use mirror to look himself either he is looking good or not. A aha! what a thing , what a miracle, in front of which i can see me and me can see i.


          If i think of absence of mirror in the world then i think of everyone looking harsh and harsh and love, likeness start destroying just as ozone in the upper atmosphere.


          Everyone of us know that world's second largest industry is of cosmetic, which totally depend upon mirror  , if we are removing mirror from the world we are removing the second largest industry of the world.


            Actually a mirror is your friend, a friend that tells you what suits you or not , what should you adopt or not, how your friends and beloved ones impressed by you. You stand in front of it in a different  pose, dressing, styles, situations and it tells you finely at at every spot whats good, whats better and whats best. On the other side it tells you what looks bad, what worse and whats worst.


            In case, a human` is a very complex plant, very sensitive industry, very vast market, very crowded street, very busy interchange. 


          Thats why you are yourself a mirror to you, i m my self a mirror to me, we are ourselves mirror to us. We can get many things in life by this , many experiences, many success stories, many of achievements , so keep studying your self as in a mirror in a different pose, styles, don;t criticize on others until you are satisfied with you. Watch yourself throughly ...... observe yourself purely ...... scan your self deeply....   

The world biggest slogan "My Wright"

                'Where is my wright' everyone is demanding, asking, fighting,crying.  A matter which born with the born of society, from the start when one turns two.

                The matter of duties and wright is a great topic of discussion for the hundred of years  but no one is satisfied, everyone is asking for more and everyone is disturbed by non accuracy of wrights. A slogan which has many forms, many conditions, many views but have nothing to satisfied.

                In case, duties and devotions gives peace of mind to human. Don't live for others live for yourself , then you can live for others.Greatness is just to love humanity, serve humanity.

                Its complex to admire that ' die for humanity '  because its an end so just try to ' do for humanity '.

Whats the most precious thing you have in your life ?

Do you ever think about it .... whats the best in my life ?

a question thats looks crazy but makes one wise who get the answer.
      
Is money is precious or relations are most valuable ?
Is peace of mind is golden or wisdom of heart is best ?
Is time is most important or matter is wonderful ?
Is knowledge is of most benefit or ignorance is the useful ?
Is soul is the main thing or your body got all the credit ?
Is life is necessary or death gives everything ? .......

So many question so many answers, as questions vary from person to person answers are not same for all.

        I think the only super thing in you is you, in me in me !

So go get know about the most precious thing you have......

Don't destroy others peace ....you will get the peace.

* The difference between your will and God will is called ....  worry or tension.

* Lucky is  who is satisfied with his luck, happy with his luck.

* Lucky is one who is satisfied with himself, with his condition, with his status, with his thinking, with his present and satisfied with his God.

* Get the company of wise ....... you will get peace.
   Give similarity between interests and duty ... you will get peace.
   Don't destroy others peace ....you will get the peace.

* Just do what you can , don't worry about what you to do, but you can't ..... so be calm every happening      happen in this world and nothing happened in this world too.

* Till you don't respect anyone don't expect him to respect you.

* Human is by birth cute .... and .... God wants him back in similar state .... its a business of God .... so He don't wanna loss in this ... so try to b cute !

*  Hide the truth ..... if there is a truth .... hide it .... it becomes apparent ... if you wanna tell , it hides ... so be careful... may its become a lie just at your tongue .... or.... a truth in your mind .

Life is just like a public transport

* Simple is always best and best is always simple.

* We can walk everywhere but travel is just on roads.

* Nose is must to smell ...... similarly ..... awareness is must to judge.

* People ask me what is the solution of all the problems ...... i think ... problems are its self solutions, solutions are everywhere, every time, every moment.....  but .... solution is that there is no solution.

* Some times hesitation is  due to proud.

* Something something due to love ......  and ......  nothing is nothing due to effort.

* Life is just like a public transport .....  every vehicle ,every moment is unknown, unbelievable, unexpected
  and more is that you have to change your convince many more times. some times you are so relax but sometime everything go difficult , sometime you are worried about everything, sometime you puzzle to chose the next vehicle sometime you lost hope, some how you got good passion, sometime you say that you are lucky then everyone, ups and downs are there, failures and success are there, panic and picnic are there.....  so life is full of colors , see them, watch them, enjoy them.

* Some say, life is just in heaven and this world is just a fake ..... i say, life is just in you in yourself.

* Don't search for the correct ...... be-correct.

* Pain always exist in loneliness .... and .... loneliness is must for pain.

Aim of Life

                A question for everyone mature, a joke for teen agers, a worry for a young , an answer to old citizens. A blast a search, a thirst, a need for every living and non living creature. A topic on which millions of books in the word are written but still its unknown to everyone, just because its the most prominent thing in our life that why its still hidden, on the other side it is known to everyone because its the most hideous matter, thats why its still known.

                There are many forms of this question, depends upon the human nature, living standard, life style, culture,values, manners, habits, interests, society and so on......

                Some find aim of life in the religion, some in the studies, some in making money, some in excitement and enjoyment,some find it to help.... sacrifice and devotion for others. Some are nice... some odd and some are worst.... depends upon whats the view .....  taken by the eye of viewer.

              Many of us thinks aim of life is same for everyone and there are a lot of people who thinks its different for everyone.

              Both are right, everyone is created by God for only one purpose, finding of this purpose is another matter and everyone is created with difference in every aspect with others so he must be given a different aim of life then others. Both of these are realities, differences just at the point of view , stage of eye, level of mind, wisdom of heart.

             If you wanna get your aim of life search yourself, your life, your society, your beloved ones, everything you watch and observe........

 Search until you got your believe on yourself ....

 Find it in your knowledge.....

 Find it in your heart ......

Love need Sacrifice and Sacrifice need Love

Love is the one of the most complex matters in the human psychology. The reason is that love is the base of humanity, society and life.

        According to me, everyone is in love from birth to onward. some love their closed ones, some love to the pretty one, some love their pets, toys, personal items, some love themselves and some love God.

       Since i had heard about love , i m known to a statement that " love need sacrifice " but until i was known to love , i was unable to understand this dialog.

       Now i am sure that  made you do any type of sacrifice, devotion and givenness. You had seen in your life, many of the examples of this from a teen age guy to an army officer, from a baby to the old women, from a student to a political leader, from a little girl to a designer ........

      I am here to share with you that before " love need sacrifice "  " sacrifice need love " and this is as real as the first statement is, because you have to first love some one, something then you are able to sacrifice. its a law of nature that first you are in love then you sacrifice and after this you get get love.

Make Things Easy

            Everyone wants easiness in life, why?
Is this human nature to make matters, targets, goals at their foot, why do we want everything readily done ?
Why do we hate problems, difficulties in our programs of life?

         I think to get easiness is the only thing that leads human being from the world of stones to the modern age. Its a human need, we want relaxations, discounts, freeness in every street of life.

         Now , 21st century, according to me the age of business of making peoples life easier and easier and obviously these businesses are growing day by day because of lot of profit in that field. One is going to paid a heavy amount of his income by using the services which make his life more comfortable, more luxurious .

        But i am not here to discuss a business with you. I am thinking now a days that what about those who provide easiness to human without any cost. Natural gifts of God are also included but when i turned to a man who is providing his services of giving you comforts without any cost. My eyes just respect them, my tongue wanna to thanks them if i face one of them  and now i think my pen give a little tribute to them who are working day and night free of cost.
       Their services, jobs are different but souls are same. You may also seen in your life those who don't show off what they are doing but they do quietly in all the field and aspects of life in all the forms of a human being.
        But the matter with me is that what they want ? why do they do this ? what is the force that mold them to do such jobs ?
    

A Well

              I gonna talk about  'a well' which provide water to human beings water which is 70 % of life . Its simple that you had seen in your life time a no. of wells ,  some are in the grassy plains, some in the hot deserts, some in the green valleys but all of them are doing the same , providing their service free for humanity ,charging no cost for it, they provide life to thirsty ones.

              When I think of 'well' and its nature, habit and attitude, I suppose its   its much similar to the human beings such as teachers, parents, friends and our lovers . Many of them do more to you then a  'well'  to a thirsty one . Actually thirst have to go to well to get satisfied but these nice relationships often are with you in your hard times, they support you help you and provide you a shoulder when you need it badly. Even u not have to go to them, not to ask,  instead they just feel you , your feelings your emotions and your heart.

              One thing more , from a well , I had get a thought that if we change our attitude, manner, habit like a well , we ll automatically get something which is as pretty and fine a water is, I can't name or explain that thing but its really a magic in a man, a light, a miracle which changes the heart give a direction to mind, an aim to life.

              So, far as, we may change ourselves and give birth to a new property of giving, devotion and sacrifice.......

Word

 Words are simply a base of communication.
I always think that may languages in the world are so different from  each other due to words. If you had studied the history of words , you must know that first words made were same as symbols of  common things or natural objects.

I think its a God gift to man , a word , a thing which is more than gift. science is a collection of knowledge and I think, knowledge is a collection of words basically.

Many of the times I had think that , what is a speech , sentence and word of a soul, a human soul , but when I think of myself, my friends and family and all the humans , I got the result that there is no value of words.

I observed that while praying to God often we lost our words, voice and speeching power but our feelings are doing the same work, while hanging out with  friend , memorizing someone , we often lose words and eyes and tears are doing the same work, same is the case with in mother hands,  in front  of beloved one.

But still I know words are special for us , for life, for love for soul and  for ...... God.

vision , thinking , attitude, values ,culture ..... eye which can see everything is with u

* All the identities are mine but still I don't have any identity ( a human )

* Everyone is extraordinary person.....  because there is  no definition of  ordinary person

* Everyone is with great thoughts.....   because greatness of thoughts cannot be defined
  Its just a matter of vision , thinking , attitude, values ,culture and human too

* Many peoples have nothing to say .... why ..... I always think about this .... how could a person can speak more or less

* The eye which can see everything is with u ... always with u. Its not a magic nor a yoga neither any type of astral projection.... Its not a Hubble Telescope nor an Electron Microscope neither its seen by another electronic device.

                        Its just your eye, the eye of a human, the eye of the 'best of creation' by God in whole universe. I am not only pointing to your two natural optical  devices , I am also talking about your third eye , the eye of your heart, the eye which can see, look, watch , observe, explore everything , from the smallest creation to the greatest God , fro every creation to every creator and from every creator to The Creator.
                    
                       So glow up your third eye see this world its very beautiful from your third eye , as much more than seen from your two physical eyes which are also too cute , nice  and beloved. If you see this world , society, humanity, nature and whatever you wanna see you start observing  it better .

                      For this create your heart with your hands , don't worry its easy, just Believe own yourself ,start making this world , this world this society as u want but one thing here learn everything from your books , your teachers , your parents teachers , your friends , your beloved ones and  yourself .

                      Just believe on yourself , do what you want , because no one here to tell you what the aim of your life,  aim of life is different to everyone , so you have to search for it , not in the outer world , not in a church , temple or masjid , search in yourself.

                  

Five stages of knowledge , surprise , Half of know

There are five stages of knowledge .

* First one is to ..... be-quite
* Second is to ....listen attentively
* Third is to .....remember what you get
* Fourth to ....follow what you know
* Fifth is ....spread that you get


   *   The difference between surprise and super prise is that you know nothing in surprise and you know much but you are unable to know in super prise

   *   Half of know is that you know that you don't know

   *  The wise, the genius, the marvelous one while living in this world , enjoy the adventures of another world too , because the read the silent eyes, creeping lips, scared faces . They can read them , they could listen the sights and scenes, they can watch the sounds, music , they do this by their hearts.
      Their hearts see listen and feel everything that glow their hearts, their minds their bodies. Thats why they lived in a world in which new light is being taken from old lamps.

Love itself a hate and hate itself a love............ Life itself a death and death itself a life.

* Its not a law , destroy and then spread , instead some distortions are for combination to result a new one.


* To fail is to experience and to experience is to succeed .


* so one should be careful of ones deed because GOD  have the knowledge of everything even things that happen in the darkness...........


*  Love is not a game of love.


* If you want to meet good shopkeeper, become good customer.


* Problem itself a solution.


* Failure  itself an experience.


* Journey itself a target.


* Game itself a goal.


* Diseases are itself a medicine. 


* Struggle itself a success.


* Exam itself a promotion.


* East itself a west and west itself an east.


* Friend itself an enemy and enemy itself a friend .

* Image itself a mirror and mirror itself an image.

* Past itself a present and present itself a future.


* The universe itself a dot and dot itself a universe.


* Love itself a hate and hate itself a love.


* Life itself a death and death itself a life.